You mention the First amendment etc. that does not affect me, but I am aware of and understand much of the American Constitution.
So, you say you are a black woman descended from slaves. I am sure you have experienced or know of oppression and prejudice because of your gender – your race or your colour, such things are appalling and should never be allowed to happen.
You also state that freedom means you live your life and I live mine. Okay, so if Kim Davis refused to let you, or a beloved member of your family, marry because she didn’t agree with the descendants of slaves marrying – What would you say? How would you feel?