At Love's Command
This is a note from Maggie who originally reviewed this book. AAR has made the decision to replace her review with this update.
This book originally appeared on my shelves with a B+ rating. Because that endorsement linked back to the website I review for, I’ve pulled it. I in no way want my opinion to stain their reputation, built over the last several decades, of writing quality reviews. I wasn’t asked to do this but am doing it voluntarily. Many of the reviewers at All About Romance are in agreement that this book is a racist nightmare that should never have been nominated for an award, let alone won one. I don’t want an opinion I formed over a year ago to in any way reflect on them.
My reason for giving the high grade was that at the time I wrote the review, I felt the characters were clear that they did not support the actions at Wounded Knee. Matt and his men considered the event a disaster and had mustered out of the army (page 22) and the book goes on to describe it as an atrocity (page 34) and horror ( page 137) which Matt had spoken against. It also stated that “After the horrors of Wounded Knee, they’d all sworn an oath to do everything in their power to preserve life and justice. That was their penance.” (page 121) I felt these things added together showed a sense of remorse and an acknowledgment that the event was a cruel and hideous thing which should never have taken place and of which they should have had no part.
I am not offering the above as a good excuse to endorse racism, merely explaining my reasoning at the time that I wrote a review of a romance novel. Because penance, forgiveness and the grace of God are big parts of the Christian faith, and we are required to forgive everything, I applied that standard to the text. I am sorry that I did not extend my view to how that might be seen from a non-Christian perspective and I am ashamed that I didn’t consider how the scenario might look from the Lakota viewpoint. This has been a very humbling learning experience for me and I am indebted to those who have taken the time to explain why that limited lens was the wrong one to use. I have tried for the last several years to promote books that present positive representations of people of color and to be someone who is sensitive to both macro and micro aggressions against them and am very sorry to have failed so completely in this instance.
I want to give a very, very heartfelt apology to the Lakota people. I am deeply distressed that my actions could be seen as endorsing the terrible things that happened in the past and that continue to happen to you today. I will do better in the future.
I've been an avid reader since 2nd grade and discovered romance when my cousin lent me Lord of La Pampa by Kay Thorpe in 7th grade. I currently read approximately 150 books a year, comprised of a mix of Young Adult, romance, mystery, women's fiction, and science fiction/fantasy.