Heroes and heroines with addictions

I was browsing K. J. Charles’s blog (highly recommended!) and came across a post where she mentioned that her heroes don’t smoke, and that she could write an entire book where no one smokes, unlikely though that would have been in Victorian times. Her main reason was that she doesn’t want the heroes to die of lung cancer twenty years after the story ends, which is understandable. I’m personally very much not in favor of smoking IRL because of the health risks and because I find it difficult to breathe when there’s smoke in the air.

But it’s different in fiction. Rhett Butler’s cigar is iconic and does not detract in the least from his appeal, even though I would never want to kiss a man who’d just had tobacco in his mouth. Sherlock Holmes, Gandalf, Django… would they be the same without their nicotine-delivery-methods-of-choice? Well, Holmes would probably ramp up his other addiction, but I’ll get to that later. And although I’ve never so much as tried a cigarette, I’ve written a romance with a hero who smoked frequently, though this was in a dystopian world where people didn’t know about the health risks.

Smoking has enough of a presence in fiction to be a sign of a character’s coolness, as long as it doesn’t get too realistic. You don’t see Gomez Addams coughing his lungs up or flashing his yellow teeth in a smile. The only thing I really dislike when heroes smoke is any disregard of other people’s preferences, from smoking indoors without asking permission from anyone sharing the immediate space, to blowing smoke in the heroine’s face to intimidate her (yes, this happens in an Anne Stuart romance).

Heroes who drink to excess are much more common in historical romances, mostly because this contributes to their rakishness and gives them an opportunity to bump gracelessly into a heroine who they’d avoid like the plague if they were sober. Of course, the vast majority of heroes aren’t alcoholics (a brilliant exception is Reggie in Mary Jo Putney’s The Rake) and you know they will never, ever have one too many after their HEA. Likewise, they don’t have cirrhosis or puffiness of the face, and any irritability, mood swings, insomnia, etc. is due to their unresolved feels for the heroine rather than the booze.

My personal preference when it comes to drinking in fiction is social drinking that doesn’t go beyond a couple of glasses, unless there’s a good reason for the character to drink to excess. And even if the ability to drink someone under the table was prized as a sign of manliness, it’s not something I want to read about in a romance. Finally, if a hero gets so drunk he passes out in front of the heroine, I’d rather she didn’t react as though she’s read the book and knows this will never happen again, because that’s too reminiscent of how people in real life dismiss problematic behavior. By the way, I haven’t yet read a romance where a heroine struggled with alcohol abuse, though if anyone knows of one, please feel free to share!

Speaking of heroines with addictions, no blog post about this would be complete without a mention of the heroine of Stacia Kane’s urban fantasy Downside series, whose drug habit often lands her in serious trouble. Not only is this an unusual quality in a heroine, but Ms. Kane doesn’t shy away from the reality of drug addiction, and the scene in the second book depicting withdrawal in all its glory is horrific. That said, these books aren’t romances, and I’ve never come across a romance where the heroine pops pills and snorts lines (or even where she’s a recovering addict). And the Downside series stopped working for me eventually, because I binge-read all the books and felt dissatisfied that the heroine was as addicted and self-loathing at the end as she was at the beginning. I also kept thinking that her tolerance levels must be through the roof by now, though since these are fantasy drugs, she doesn’t have any of the health problems I’d expect to see in cocaine or heroin addicts.

Heroes with drug addiction are similarly thin on the ground. Even Sherlock Holmes only shot up with his seven per cent solution in one book. It’s interesting how even the bored-with-the-world rakes and the bad, bad billionaires don’t touch drugs, especially since cocaine and heroin use was once perfectly acceptable. Heroin was actually hailed as a cure for morphine addiction back in the day. But now, even in fiction where the hero keeps it under control and purely recreational, I’d worry that this balance wouldn’t last. There are some contemporary romances with heroes recovering from drug addiction (such as Carian Cole’s No Tomorrow), but heroes addicted in the here-and-now seem to be between rare and nonexistent.

How about you? What are your thoughts on addiction in romance?

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Elaine S

A bit late on this as I have been on holiday. Addiction in romance? Err, no. I grew up with parents that chain smoked, an alcoholic mother and my brother became addicted to angel dust, etc. Having seen this up close and personal, a big thumbs down from me for there is nothing romantic about these things. I have read a few books where these issues feature and, though I thought The Rake was a worthwhile story, it’s not something I wish to revisit. It might be more interesting to consider how partners/children/siblings can overcome this sort of familial situation and avoid getting entrapped themselves. There is, according to Beth Macy in Dopesick, a probability of a genetic element in these situations so maybe the heroes are those who manage to avoid it.

oceanjasper

Genuine addiction can make for a compelling romance novel character in the hands of a skilled writer. I immediately thought of Jude in Sarina Bowen’s Steadfast (although I wish he’d had a more interesting heroine). But drunkenness is mostly just tiresome to me.

I find smoking intensely unappealing in real life, but in books I just pretend it isn’t happening, like I invariably excise the manbun or tattoos from my mind’s eye.

Susan-DC

Older mysteries with a romance that runs through it: P.B. Ryan’s Gilded Age series. Nell Sweeney is governess to a Boston Brahmin family. Will Hewitt, the oldest son, was thought to have died in the Civil War. But in the first book Will does come home, addicted to heroin and accused of murder. It becomes Nell’s job to try to prove his innocence. One of the issues in the books is whether he will be able to beat the addiction or not.

As for addictions, it all comes down to execution, as it always does. But I have to say that having grown up in an era when many people smoked, including loved ones who died as a result, it’s the one thing I can’t accept in a hero or heroine. I don’t find it sophisticated or transgressive, I find it offputting. Plus all those cigarette butts in ashtrays around the house or on the street are the opposite of attractive.

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meb

I really enjoyed the Nell Sweeney books. Thanks for reminding me of them!

tster

I’m fine with addiction in romance novels, assuming they actually address it and are not actively addicted at the end. I like a lot of angst in my stories, it makes the redemption and HEA feel all the more hard-won. I also don’t worry about things like smoking causing lung cancer when the main character is 60 — at least in historical novels. It’s a turnoff in modern stories.

The reality for historicals is that these characters would never have fallen in love as they’re usually violating a lot of norms. And even *had they fallen in love the way they did, they would have died at 40 of the grippe or an apoplexy or some other weird Regency-era medical condition. I don’t really like to think about them living much past the end of the book anyways.

Bona

Great books with heroines with alcoholic problems that I can easily remember: May Shipley (Speakeasy, by Sarina Bowen), Claire Henderson (A soldier’s heart, by Kathleen Korbel -a mechanism to cope with her PTSD, you see the signs of alcoholism in certain acts, although it is more centered in the PTSD) and India Ellison (Branded as trouble, by Lorelei James). I recommend any of these books.
I don’t look forward to addiction in my romance novels but it’s not something I reject either.
What I dislike is romanticizing it or any other unhealthy habit, mainly sedentarism and bad eating. I imagine all those heroines (because it’s usually them, and not the heroes) with a lot of cardiovascular problems in their futures.

tster

My personal pet peeve is in contemporaries, when the main characters are shown eating a steady diet of burgers, fries, shakes, doughnuts, etc. and even complaining! about vegetables or salads. I think authors are trying to make the heroines look “unpretentious” and “down to Earth,” often as a contrast to the “bitchy” antagonist, the woman who watches what she eats. But eating like an 8-year-old is not a good thing and not every woman who likes her broccoli is shallow or suffering from an eating disorder!

Manjari

For me, romance novels are an escape so a main character with an addiction is a level of angst that I don’t often wish to delve into. That being said, if I do read a book where a main character is an addict, I want to see a realistic road to recovery. One that comes to mind is Aslan Doyle in Nicky James’ Valor and Doyle series (M/M). Aslan is a recovering alcoholic and we see him going to AA meetings and talking to his sponsor. I recently also enjoyed Noelle Adam’s book Redemption (M/F) which starts with the heroine being a recovering addict who went to rehab and is now trying to live a quiet life. And one of my favorite books by Charlie Novak is Summer Kisses (M/M) in which one of the main characters uses drugs and alcohol to manage stress. In that book the character stops cold turkey with the help of a friend but does eventually go to therapy to start dealing with root problems.

Lil

As I remember, there are a couple of Meredith Duran books—Written on You Skin and I can’t remember the other title—where there’s a lot of drug use. So much that I was surprised no one seemed to be addicted. It kind of bothered me, because drug addiction is a deal-breaker for me.
Smoking, on the other hand doesn’t bother me at all, probably because I grew up in a world where everyone smoked. And I have to say, a cigarette is a great prop in a movie.

Dabney Grinnan

I actually love Phin’s (Written on Your Skin) and James’ (Bound By Your Touch) stories. (I am a huge Duran fan.)

Both men are addicts–Phin for opium and James for booze–because of past traumas in their lives. Both have to address those traumas before they can love the heroines properly. Phin, the opium addict, is especially compelling.

Lil

I can buy addiction as a result of medical treatment, pain killers that went on too long, but I have trouble accepting addiction as a result of past traumas. Too often I have seen it used as an excuse to avoid accepting responsibility. But that’s just my experience, which may be severely limited.

Yuri

Sorry, but a cigarette is the opposite of “cool” to me, and is often enough for me to put down the book. I stopped reading one favorite fantasy author because she put smoking in her fantasy world – so unnecessary. And increasingly a hero/heroine who thinks drinking to excess is fun is a turnoff for me. I read romance to escape reality, not to be reminded of the uglier aspects of it, and smoking / getting blind drunk is deeply deeply unattractive to me.

Plus, I think creators (authors, filmmakers etc) have some responsibility in not promoting unsafe practices – and whereas in the 1990s there was a movement to eliminate smoking from movies it seems to be coming back. Each instance is unlikely to have an effect, but cumulatively it adds up to an image of smoking as “cool” and you can bet the tobacco companies are really happy about that!

meb

Jo Beverley’s Company of Rogues series includes Dare’s story in To Rescue a Rogue. I remember liking this series back in the day.

Yuri

Second the recc for “To Rescue a Rogue”

Also “Two Rogues Make a Right” by Cat Sebastian, m/m historical, is a lovely romance where one of them has an opium addiction.

“We Found Love” by Kade Boehme and Allison Cassatta is a very unusual m/m contemporary, where they both have been committed for self-harm, one of whom is an alcoholic). Not an easy read but ultimately rewarding.

There was “Scoundrel’s Kiss” by Carrie Lofty, set in 13th century Spain, with an opium addicted heroine. Roni Loren’s heroine in “Caught Up in You” (bdsm contemporary) is a former addict.

Indira

Sorry, you have got me going here, Marian. Lord Demerel in Heyer’s Venetia has borderline alcohol addiction. In his case, I think, it is depression induced alcoholism.

Indira

Actually, in Doyle’s Sherlock Holmes stories, Holmes shot up quite often. But only when he was in between cases and bored. So he was a recreational drug user.

Kayne Spooner

Nardi, a famous sculptor from Bliss by Judy Cuevas (aka Judith Ivory) is who I thought of when I read your post. I still think of this book fondly even though it was published so long ago. (1995)

Indira

Also, the hero is Alexis Hall’s Glitterland is a former addict.

Caz Owens

I was going to mention that one – and say that I’ve read quite a few romances with characters who are former addicts, or are on the verge of addiction… of course, my mind is blank as to titles. Definitely a couple were historicals featuring laudanum addiction.

Caz Owens

I was thinking more of booze; characters who drink heavily but manage to sober up before the drink takes over. Not sure I’ve come across that with drugs.

Indira

Glitterland was a tough one—because there is also several attempted suicides or suicidal thoughts. I am curious as to how many romances deal with addiction combined with mental health issues.

Indira

For the life of me, I cannot remember the title or the author (popular). The hero got addicted to laudanum because his mother used to feed it to him to curb his anxiety attacks. He kicks the habit after a long struggle. The backstory for the heroine is that her father and brother traded state secrets to the Chinese. The father was hanged and the brother was sent to Australia. The heroine keeps the rest of the family together doing some fancy craft stuff (don’t remember). Perhaps it rings a bell to some reader here.

Indira

I think you are correct.

Dabney Grinnan

In Till Next We Meet, the heroine is addicted to laudanum. (It’s a lovely historical by Karen Ranney.)

Yuri

Another addicted heroine is Clare in the Clare Fergusson/Russ Van Alstyne mysteries by Julia Spencer-Fleming, Clare becomes addicted to uppers and downers as a result of her military service.

Angela

Heroines who struggle with alcoholism are definitely rarer. The only one that I can recall off the top of my head is Seraphina from The Rakess by Scarlett Peckham.

Yuri

Agree about the rarity, but there are a few.

Bit of a spoiler but “You Had Me at Hola” by Alexis Daria has a heroine struggling with alcohol.

“Friends to Forever” by Nikki Logan is an intense reunion romance set during a whale rescue where heroine is a recovering alcoholic.

“Speakeasy” by Sarina Bowen, has a recovering alcoholic heroine in a solid contemporary romance.

Bronte

In Ilona Andrews Kate Daniels series Kate stops drinking because she felt it was problematic for her. She’s not an alcoholic but it’s one of the few examples in fiction that I’ve seen where a character realises they might be headed down a path and makes a change.