It’s fair to say I’m obsessed with ChatGPT. What’s that, you ask? Hmmm… let me try and explain.

ChatGPT is an artificial intelligence bot that answers questions in fairly fluent language. It can answer almost any query in a way that sounds, depending on your standards, human and coherent. Its verbiage is authoritative, clear and, somewhat alarmingly, droll. Many feel it will destroy jobs, education, and even our emotional lives. Others feel it will be a force for good.

Since the program was released to the public at the end of last year, I’ve spent hours playing around with it. I’ve asked it to summarize Moby Dick, give me a good recipe for fried chicken, and to clean up my own reviews. Every time, it’s felt eerie to chat with. It feels alive and does a damn good job although it is routinely inaccurate and kind of a suck up. (It’s forever apologizing.)

Here is an unedited conversation I had with it about romance novels.

Read it and tell me, what do you think? Will something that had only been in the public realm for a month–it will become iteratively smarter–take our jobs and lessen the appeal of the words of actual humans? Or is its tone so facile that you’d dismiss it? Will it expand our world or simply limit us?

Let us know in the comments.

And thanks to Nic for suggesting this post!


Dabney:  Are romance novels useful to society?

chatGPT: Romance novels can be useful to society in several ways. They can provide entertainment and a way to escape from the stresses of daily life, which can have a positive impact on mental health and well-being. Romance novels can also provide a sense of community, as many people enjoy discussing and sharing their favorite books with others.

In addition to these personal benefits, romance novels can also have a cultural impact by reflecting and shaping societal attitudes about relationships, love, and gender roles. Many romance novels feature strong, independent characters and promote positive, healthy relationships, which can serve as a positive influence on readers.

Overall, while romance novels may not be considered essential in the same way that certain types of literature or non-fiction are, they can still provide value and enjoyment to readers, and can have a positive impact on society.

Dabney: Essential to whom? Isn’t this a sexist reply?

chatGPT: I apologize if my response came across as sexist. My statement about certain types of literature being “essential” was not intended to imply that romance novels are not important or valuable. I simply meant to convey that different types of literature serve different purposes and can be considered essential by different people.

I did not mean to imply that romance novels are not as important as other types of literature. All types of literature, including romance novels, can provide value and enjoyment to readers, and can have a positive impact on society. It is important to recognize the value and worth of all types of literature, and not to make judgments about the worth of a particular type of literature based on personal preferences or biases.

Dabney: Don’t you think that because typically they are written by women for women our patriarchal society is overly dismissive of them?

chatGPT: It is possible that the fact that romance novels are often written by women and aimed at a female audience has contributed to them being dismissed or undervalued by some members of society. Throughout history, women’s experiences and perspectives have often been dismissed or underrepresented in literature and other forms of media, and this may be particularly true of genres that are perceived as being primarily for women.

However, it is also important to recognize that the popularity of romance novels, particularly among women, suggests that they are valued and appreciated by a significant portion of the population. Romance novels can provide a sense of escapism, entertainment, and emotional satisfaction to readers, and they can also reflect and shape societal attitudes about relationships, love, and gender roles. It is important to recognize the value and worth of all types of literature, and not to dismiss or undervalue any particular genre or type of literature based on personal preferences or biases.

Dabney: What is the best romance novel ever written?

chatGPT: It is difficult to determine the “best” romance novel ever written, as opinions on literature are highly subjective and what one person may consider the best romance novel may not be the same as another person’s favorite. Some classic romance novels that have received widespread acclaim and have stood the test of time include “Pride and Prejudice” by Jane Austen, “Wuthering Heights” by Emily Brontë, and “Jane Eyre” by Charlotte Brontë.

In more recent years, many popular romance novels have been written by authors such as Nora Roberts, Julia Quinn, and Lisa Kleypas. Some highly rated and critically acclaimed romance novels from recent years include “Red, White & Royal Blue” by Casey McQuiston, “Love Her or Lose Her” by Tessa Bailey, and “The Bride Test” by Helen Hoang.

Ultimately, the “best” romance novel will depend on an individual’s personal preferences and taste in literature. It is important to remember that all types of literature, including romance novels, can provide value and enjoyment to readers, and it is up to each person to decide which books they consider to be the best.

Dabney: Wuthering Heights is not a romance novel because it doesn’t have a happy ending. There is one rule for a romance novel: it must have a happy ending.

chatGPT: You are correct that “Wuthering Heights” is not traditionally considered a romance novel. While the novel does explore a tumultuous and passionate love affair between Catherine and Heathcliff, it is not a traditional romance novel in the sense that it does not have a happy ending. In fact, the novel is often classified as a work of gothic fiction or a tragic romance, as it deals with themes of love, obsession, and betrayal, and ends with the deaths of several of the main characters.

That being said, it is important to note that the definition of a romance novel can vary and can include a wide range of sub-genres and themes. While many romance novels do have happy endings, this is not a requirement for all romance novels. Some romance novels may focus on more complex or unconventional relationships and may not necessarily have a traditional “happily ever after” ending.

Ultimately, the definition of a romance novel will depend on the specific conventions and themes that a particular book or series of books follows. While some romance novels may have happy endings, others may explore more complex or nuanced themes and relationships, and may not necessarily fit into a traditional mold.

Dabney: This is simply incorrect. While it is true that romance novels can focus on all kinds of relationships, they have to have a happy ending. This is literally the only limitation of the genre.

chatGPT: I apologize if my previous response was not clear. You are correct that many romance novels do have a happy ending, and this is often considered a key characteristic of the genre. In traditional romance novels, the central love story typically follows a specific narrative arc that includes a “happily ever after” ending, in which the main characters overcome any obstacles or conflicts and end up together in a committed and satisfying relationship.

However, it is important to note that the definition of a romance novel is not necessarily limited to this specific narrative arc, and that the genre can encompass a wide range of sub-genres and themes. While many romance novels do follow the traditional narrative arc and have a happy ending, others may focus on more complex or unconventional relationships and may not necessarily have a traditional “happily ever after” ending.

I apologize for any confusion my previous response may have caused. Please let me know if you have any additional questions.

Dabney: I’ll concede that romance novels can end with what we call a HFN ending–happy for now. But there is no romance novel that doesn’t end up with lovers together and happy about that.

chatGPT:  You are correct that many romance novels do end with the main characters together and happy in their relationship, whether it is a traditional “happily ever after” ending or a “happy for now” ending. This is often considered a key characteristic of the romance genre, and it reflects the focus of romance novels on romantic relationships and the emotional satisfaction and fulfillment that can come from these relationships.

However, it is important to note that the definition of a romance novel is not necessarily limited to this specific narrative arc, and that the genre can encompass a wide range of sub-genres and themes. While many romance novels do follow the traditional narrative arc and have a happy ending, others may focus on more complex or unconventional relationships and may not necessarily have a traditional “happily ever after” ending.

It is also worth noting that the definition of a “happy” ending can vary from person to person, and what one reader may consider a satisfying or happy ending may not be the same as another reader’s interpretation. Ultimately, the interpretation of a romance novel’s ending will depend on the individual reader and their own personal preferences and expectations.

Dabney: I think I know better. I publish All About Romance, a site that’s been reviewing romance novels since 1998. I’ve spoken to many romance novel authors. All, as well as most in my field, are clear on this: romance novels must end with the lovers in a HEA or a HFN relationship.

chatGPT: I apologize if my previous responses were not accurate. As an AI, I do not have personal experience or knowledge of the romance novel industry or the specific conventions and themes that are commonly found in romance novels. I was attempting to provide a general overview of the genre based on my programming and the information that I have been trained on.

It is clear that you have a wealth of knowledge and experience in the field of romance novels, and I appreciate your insights and corrections. You are correct that many romance novels do follow the traditional narrative arc and end with the main characters together and happy in their relationship, whether it is a “happily ever after” ending or a “happy for now” ending. This is a key characteristic of the romance genre, and it reflects the focus of romance novels on romantic relationships and the emotional satisfaction and fulfillment that can come from these relationships.

I apologize for any confusion or misinformation my previous responses may have caused. Please let me know if you have any additional questions.

Dabney: I hope your programming will learn that sexism can often mean misrepresenting a female centric perspective through the lens of a male dominated cultural perspective.

chatGPT: As an AI, I do not have personal biases or cultural perspectives, and I am programmed to provide objective and accurate information to the best of my ability. I apologize if any of my previous responses came across as sexist or misrepresentative of the romance novel genre. My goal is to provide accurate and useful information to all users, regardless of their gender or cultural background.

I understand that cultural perspectives can shape our understanding and interpretation of literature and other forms of media, and it is important to be mindful of this when discussing and analyzing these works. I will make every effort to provide balanced and accurate information in my responses to ensure that they are not biased or misleading. Please let me know if you have any additional questions or concerns.

 

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